4 Signs that Your Relationship is Failing

Let it go while you are still sane and strong.

Before all these COVID-19 quarantine happened, three of us were on our way from lunch after a conference and discussing random things about our lives. That’s when I asked my workmate Charlotte about her 4 years long relationship with our senior colleague Hussey.

Her face suddenly fell.

“Hussey broke up with me!”

“When?” I asked without even squinting.

“Last month. He had found another girl, from his new hospital.” she said.

I was this close to saying “I told you so!” — but I didn’t, because why should I add more fuel to the fire.

I don’t know how, but I apparently knew their relationship wouldn’t last long. I had even talked to her about it when she was complaining they were constantly fighting over the phone since Hussey got a transfer to a different hospital for further training. But she didn’t listen to my warnings.

8 of my close friends had broken up last year, and unfortunately, 7 of them were predictable.

Being able to deduce which relationships are treading down shouldn’t have been my superpower. But since it’s been so, let me take good use of it and tell you about 4 signs of relationships that really wouldn’t work.

The days when my friend Nav wanted to see his crush Ariel, I was the wingman he dragged along everywhere. I had to wait while they talked and I wasted hours watching their back. However 4 months later, after all that effort worked and Ariel said yes to dating Nav, I found him rejecting her calls and avoiding her.

When he said he had lost his interest — I could only roll my eyes hard.

It doesn’t matter how much you initially loved your partner, if you are no more excited, there is a high chance that your relationship is going to fall flat.

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